In Judaism, marriage is not supposed to be a power struggle between men and women. That is why the word for man, ish, which has a yud, the Hebrew letter yud, and ishah has the Hebrew letter hei, and the yud and the hei are God’s name. We don’t believe that you can have a marriage without the holy presence of Hashem, or God, in the home.
And I think this is what the professional feminists get wrong. What they are trying to do as opposed to normal feminists who just want things to be fair, the professional feminists are trying to cut the knees off of the men and make them bow and submit. That’s the opposite of worshiping Hashem.
Writing by Dr. Dannielle Blumenthal 